I have noticed in my life that I usually find what I look for. For example, if I look for what is wrong, I usually find it. If I look for the negative, I find it. If I look for what is right, I also find that. If I look for what is positive, that I also find. So I have come to this conclusion. Since I find what I'm looking for, why not look for something intentionally. In other words, look for something on purpose. Why not look for what is right, look for what is good, look for what works, look for what is positive? That way when you do find what you're looking for, it is a good thing.
What do you think?