Saturday, May 31, 2014

Self Improvement - Focus

I have found that what you focus on grows. If you focus on what is bad and wrong, then it grows bigger and your life will suck. If you focus on what is good and right, then it grows and your life will be pretty good. So much of what we think is good or bad in our lives is just a matter of perception. Maybe you hate your job, but I bet someone out there would like it (especially if they are unemployed). Maybe you have financial problems, but I bet there is someone who is worse off and you should be thankful for what you do have. Maybe you are in a relationship you don't like, but I bet there is someone in a worse relationship. If all you focus on is what is wrong or bad, then that is all you will see. Change what you focus on and you change what you see. Now things will not improve overnight, but they will improve. Maybe you need to move on? If things are truly bad, maybe you need to focus on a new job, or a new relationship? Maybe you just need the courage to make some changes?

What do you think?